Friends and Family
by Kevin Jones

This is actually fairly easy. You will have to grow a backbone to do what I am going to suggest.

Friends are a Choice … Family are provided.

In the end it is our decision to be around them. Either way … be hones, tell them how you feel. Let’s say you have a “Negative Nancy” (friend or family) and a lot of what they say isn’t positive or productive. Tell them. Point blank that what they are doing bothers you (in your own way) everyone will have their own technique. If they persist create the separation.

Easy for me to say right! Well my 15 year old daughter has never seen my own parents. Because all they want to do is talk about the past and negative stuff. I asked politely several times on different occasions to no avail. So I told them when they can get over the past we can resume the relationship. Again over 15 years and no regrets. Do you part and you will feel no guilt. Give them the opportunity to change, it wont happen over night, as long as there is progress.

Communication is key in any relationship. No one can be expected to read your mind. Express yourself (not dramatically) and there should be enough respect on both sides to work through any hiccups and actually create a stronger healthier relationship!

The best of luck to a happier and healthier life!